Little Bella has captured the hearts of our family and everyone that meets her. We want to share her story with all.

Saturday, August 29, 2015

Bella’s Little Adventure

It all started early Friday morning.  We were headed into therapy for all three little ones.  I actually remember thinking how well I was doing that morning.  Everyone had their braces on, everyone was dressed cute, everyone had eaten (a problem later), everyone had their separate backpacks with what they needed for that day (diapers for those who needed them, bus harnesses for those who would ride the bus home), everything was ready for our busy day.  I put the wheelchair together and strapped Bella in. Then I got Joy and Alex out of the van.  I am always on high alert with the three of them by myself, but especially in a parking lot! I was keeping an eye on Alex and Joy, to make sure they stayed safe, as I reached back to shut the van door.  It wouldn’t fully close – weird.  I glanced back at the door to see Bella's finger wedged in there.   Quickly, I threw the door open and looked at her finger.  The whole first joint was crushed.  It looked like the nail had completely come off.  I found out later, through x-rays and the hand surgeon, that the bone had snapped up out of the skin, pushing the nail and nail bed out of its way in its journey.  And then the blood.  Wow – blood all over her, blood all over me.  At this point the mother of another patient came around the van to put her son in her car, she saw our situation and asked if she could help.  Yes, please! Go get Margaret and Christie, our OT and ST.  She was gone and then they were all back. I’m so grateful!  Our wonderful therapists took Joy and Bella and spoke directly with the doctor at the Urgent Care.  He, the NP, and the two nurses immediately helped us.  Bella, by this point, was freaking out.  She didn’t want anyone to touch it, and we all wanted to clean it up.  The doctor said it would require a nail bed repair and she would require sedation.  He sent us on to Kosair Brownsboro – a satellite children’s hospital here.  Joy and Alex stayed with our therapists. I called Jason who headed out to grab the kids.  At Brownsboro, they did x-rays and determined that she had broken her finger.  They called the hand surgeon, but because Bella had eaten just an hour ago, they couldn’t put her under to do the surgery. They sent us downtown because at the big hospital, they can operate 24/7, instead of only during the day, like at the satellite hospital.  We had to wait the full eight hours before her surgery.  No one wanted her to aspirate on her breakfast, especially since aspirate pneumonia (coupled with terrible pulmonary hypertension) is what caused us to end up with a trach for four years.  At 6:30 PM, she headed back for surgery.  She was so brave throughout the day.  She whimpered now and then, but she wasn’t hysterical.  I was so proud of her.  The hand surgeon showed me the x-rays and explained how she pinned the bone and did the nail bed repair.  She cast her past the elbow so Bella would leave it alone while it heals.  We’ll have that cast for three weeks.  In recovery, her stats were low.  Fortunately, no one panicked.  I explained and they believed me and we got to go home.  So very grateful! Twelve hours after hurting her finger,  we got into the car to head home.  What a day!


Jason brought me a cupcake (it was super yummy)


Waiting for surgery (good meds on board)


All done, let’s go home (Love the cute heart on her cast!)

A cute card from her class


Sunday, August 16, 2015


I was thinking today about the circle of life.  Marriages and joy, death and sorrow.

Bella put her arms tightly around my neck and buried her head in my hair.

I asked her, “Did you ever think you would be this healthy?”

Without a pause, she responded emphatically, “Yes!”


Here’s to you Bella – May I have half the faith and happiness you possess!

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

First Day of School!


Bella is technically in 1st grade!  I can’t believe it!

She has the same teacher as last year (yeah!).  This year she has a locker in the hallway – this is a big deal.

Last year the girls were the first ones on the bus.  This year, it looks like they are the last.  As we got on this morning, we were greeted with little voices saying, “Hi, Bella!”  Made me so happy.

Have a great year baby!

Monday, August 10, 2015

Beginning of August

Off to the dietician.  We were instructed to do a food log.  Fun times!


While Joy was at the eye doctor, big sister was watching Bella.  She swears she only looked away for two minutes! :)

Bella loves babies!


Playing outside


At Meet the Teacher – so excited to go back to school


Saturday, August 1, 2015

Indianapolis Indiana Temple Open House


On August 1st, we drove up to Indianapolis and toured the new LDS temple there.  Afterwards we went out to dinner.  It was a lovely Saturday!